Birthday Parties

Last week we got a call from my husband Paul's mother. She invited us over on Fri. It was to be her birthday, her 79th. We went and all her kids and some friends were there (one of her daughters lives in Cal.) We had a great time. She planned the party, prepared the food, and baked the cake. I was reminded of something that happened a long time ago. When my kids were little, of course, I had birthday parties for them. One day as my birthday was approaching, my (former) mother-in-law, asked me if I was planning to have a party for myself. I thought it was a silly idea, to have a party for yourself! But, now I understand. When you are young your kids are with you all the time. But, when they grow up you need to be with them. Planning your own party is a way to get your family together. It also made me think that most everyone likes to have a birthday party! I think next year I will plan a party for myself.